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I see you struggling with self-acceptance, battling self-esteem issues, and afraid of being judged because of your cleft lip and palate.
I feel your shame. I know the fear of socializing and speaking up for what you want to avoid drawing attention to yourself. You have big dreams but don't go after them because you think you're not good enough. I can help you improve your confidence, pursue your dreams and become the beautiful person you are - unashamed, confident and fearless!
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Do you feel like the only person in the world with a cleft lip and palate?
Growing up, I didn't have anyone to talk to who knew what it was like living with a cleft. I would have given anything to talk to someone with a cleft lip and palate who could share what they learned about building self-confidence and self-acceptance.
You can read books about building self-confidence and pretend you don't hear the name calling or see the people staring at you. You can tell yourself all the positive affirmations you want, but at the end of the day, when you're tired, or told you need another surgery or more dental work because the last one didn't work out, it's hard to ignore the voice that keeps you awake at night, wondering why you were born this way. It's even harder when you don't have the support of someone who understands and has lived with a cleft lip and palate.
You try to build your self confidence and hope when you're older, or when society is more accepting, or "someday" you'll be "good enough" and can go after your dreams. Only someday never comes and your dreams are still dreams.
So you keep hiding, wishing you can be more confident, and that you can walk down the street without feeling like everyone is staring at you. You long for the day when you can look in the mirror and be happy with your reflection.
It took me more than 40 years to realize what was and was not working but it doesn't have to take that long for you!
I can help you overcome your fears and feelings of shame so you can hold your head high and feel confident that you got this! Think of what it would feel like when you pursue your dreams, or when you can look in the mirror and like what you see, and the day you can walk down the street without worrying if people are looking at you or even talking about you.
With my support and guidance, you CAN have more confidence! You can stop feeling ashamed of how you look and start feeling proud of who you are. I can help you accept yourself so you can live a more fulfilling life, go after your dreams, and see the beautiful person you are.
What can you achieve if you gained more self-confidence and self-acceptance?
When you work with me, you will have a safe space where you can go through a powerful transformation to live your best life and become the person you were meant to be!
It is like having an experienced partner in your corner who will always be there to motivate, encourage and support you as you navigate through life while gently pushing you out of your comfort zone and keeping you accountable when you need (and want) it most!
Together we will develop a personalized plan that will help you:
Embrace Who You Are
Discover what you want in life and build on your inner strength so you can develop a positive self-image that embraces your individuality and reduces your need for approval from others.
Become Empowered
Overcome self-doubt and work towards your goals by improving skills to cope with your emotions, communicate with confidence, and prioritize your mental and physical well-being so you can engage in social activities that align with your values and interests.
Express Yourself
Confidently communicate your thoughts, feelings and needs with confidence so you can create stronger relationships, build a supportive network of people who lift you up, and develop the ability to say no without fear of rejection so you can confidently ask for what you want.
Can you relate to any of these thoughts and feelings?
These thoughts and feelings are isolating and overwhelming but you do not have to go through them alone!
I faced the same issues! I know how difficult it can be to struggle with your self-acceptance, feeling that you're not "good enough", and endless shame about your appearance.
I learned how to boost my self confidence and work through these challenges and I want to help you do the same. I can help you overcome these obstacles and empower you to live the life you desire.
You are worthy of love, acceptance and success - it is time to start believing it!
Take the next steps to find out how you can feel more confident!
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Meet with me over Zoom for a FREE consultation to see if we would be a good fit to work together and how I can help you reach your goals.
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